Thursday, March 22, 2007

Drinking Problem

As many Singaporeans might know there is a common stigma surrounding Indians as they are heavy drinkers. When I look at my father’s generation, men who are now in the 40’s and 50’s they were the only ones drinking in the family. This was happening in the last 20 years. Almost all Singaporean Indian man had a drinking problem. That easily led to family problems. Getting drunk and hitting the wife and getting into trouble when in drunk.

That was then, but now we have a new problem, we have quite a number of Indian women drinking. Please note that 20 years ago, to see women drinking is quite unlikely. I know you might say that women from other races also drink, but my idea of this blog is only to discuss problems surrounding Indians. Whether or not other races drink or not does not change anything. Generally Indian girls aging 16 and above, once they have left secondary school they are now developing a new culture of clubbing. The dance and the boos are more attractive to them. It is now a hobby now.

I told you that 20 years ago generally it was just the Indian men who have the drinking problem. Now we have couples who drink. It all starts with trying it out, then drinking to relief stress, and then it becomes a weekly thing. Then viola it becomes part of the Indian life.

With the men of the family drinking, it caused broken families, children going astray. In the next generation, it’s going to be 2 adults in the family with the drinking problem. What will be the outcome? We can only wait and see.

2 comments:

Haran said...

I'm not sure if you are saying that women shouldn't drink? or none of us should drink and have a drinking problem??? :P

I think you got to go back to 20years and live then if you don't wanna be in this century... lol.

I think women wanna be equal to men... They wanna do what men does. I know its not possible for a women to do everything men does... or it's not possible for men to do everything women does. I believe this is because of our mentality towards equality.

Clubbing is very normal in Western world. I know you talking about Indian people, but they way we have to see that is just a way for them to mingle with other people and have fun. Some people go clubbing to pick up (girls or boys) and some people go clubbing just to dance and get drunk. I believe everyone have their own reason for going there.

So my opinion is it's upto each individuals to decide what they wanna do.

Vasanthan said...

Maybe you are just right.
i am abit old fasioned.
its each person's opinion. And people, drink responsibily